The Presumption of Safety

I believe others would agree that the illusion of safety is not actual safety. The things that we do every day are dangerous, but there is an inherent difference between accepting danger as reasonable and necessary and ignoring danger as though it were nonexistent or negligible. I think we typically operate somewhere between 'there is a possibility of a meteorite landing on me' and 'let's have a pushing contest at the edge of this very high cliff'. This brings up a question of what is truly safe, and how it is different from what we only think or presume is safe.

I like the example of speeding because it is ubiquitous in developed areas, and common to think "it does not hurt anyone to go faster than a sign says." However, ignoring a posted and legal sign is a distraction from the actual issue. I do believe that humans make rational decisions that support the common good; the possibility exists to go faster or slower than a speed limit dictates. However, is this decision made rationally or out of frustration, because "I'm running late," or "my passenger will die from blood loss if I don't drive fast enough"? Not paying attention to the speed I drive has an effect, and it is different than when I choose consciously to drive faster because I checked and it is still safe. The point is to recognize, understand, evaluate, and accept the inherent danger instead of ignoring it simply because it has not resulted in death and/or injury yet.

Why? This goes to the 'right' fear preparing us for what we should actually be wary of. For example, if I am a woman, I am most at risk of violence from an intimate partner-not a stranger. If I am a child, the most likely person who kidnaps or murders me is a parent-again, not a stranger. It is important to dispel the illusions we carry regarding our safety. It is vital to become aware of actual dangers. By guarding against illusory threats, I'm ignoring or don't have the energy to watch for real ones. When I don't pay attention to real danger, I put myself-and potentially others!-at greater risk.

I believe the privileged have the illusion of safety, where we assume that we are safe whatever we do. This may come out of a history of not experiencing everyday violence or imminent danger. This does not preclude responsibility to become aware or maintain vigilance of possible threats. Complacency is not safety, rather it is an invitation to harm.